How to Safely Lend Your Tesla to Family Members: A Guide to Parental Controls

① Introduction 👨👩👧👦

Tesla vehicles offer powerful acceleration and simple controls.
However, lending your Tesla to new drivers or family members unfamiliar with EVs can feel stressful.

This guide explains Tesla’s Parental Controls, showing how to reduce risk and protect both your loved ones and your vehicle.

② Main Explanation｜What Are Tesla Parental Controls? 🔐

Tesla’s Parental Controls are designed for safe family use, going beyond Valet Mode and Speed Limit Mode.

🔧 How to enable

1. Controls → Safety
2. Enable Parental Controls
3. Set a 4-digit PIN

Only the owner can change or disable these settings.

③ Practical Tips｜Key Features and Best Practices 🚗

① Limit acceleration ⚡

Acceleration is locked to Chill mode, preventing sudden launches.

② Set a maximum speed 🚧

You can cap the top speed (e.g., 70 mph), helping prevent accidental speeding.

③ Lock essential safety features 🛡

Collision warnings and emergency braking remain always ON.

④ Monitor nighttime driving 🌙

Receive smartphone notifications if the vehicle is driven during specified hours.

④ Why This Matters｜Common Misconceptions 🤔

Simply telling someone to “drive carefully” isn’t enough.
Parental Controls provide system-level safety, reducing stress for both the owner and the driver.

⑤ Summary｜Peace of Mind for Shared Tesla Use ✨

Tesla’s Parental Controls allow you to share your vehicle confidently while maintaining safety and control.
Once set up, they can be enabled with just a few taps.

⑥ Social Proof 📣

This feature has gained attention on X, with many users saying it’s essential for family use.

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